It’s not great. It’s not even marginally good. I’m referring to Steve Harder of Kid Hollow Farm. Most of you know what wonderful friends Pat and Steve have been- they mean the world to me. A little over a year and a half ago Steve was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He went through a surgery where they took out a little bit of everything, along with some intensive chemotherapy. That spring- just a year ago, they said he no longer has cancer, that he had cancer. The chemo was continued anyway, precautionary. Then, in August, a spot appeared. It was watched, and as little as a few weeks ago, Pat told me nothing was changing. Then Wed. night I received news- there was a sudden turn downhill, an inoperable complication, and he’s down to weeks, if that. His spirits are good, he says he’s not afraid, he’s enjoying his family, and he’s even planning his memorial- that’s Steve for you. 😉
I’m trying to reach as many people as I can that might know them- and even if you don’t, I know how kind you all are, and I know the good thoughts will flow. If you do know them, and need more detailed updates (I’ll try to get some everyday, though I don’t know that I’ll get them up here that often) leave me a comment or feel free to e-mail me- puffthemagicrabbit@gmail.com.
You know what I’m asking- vibes, energy, thoughts, prayers, peace, strength- however you do it, please send it their way- and their families’ way, too.
On it. And keeping you all in my thoughts.
Mindy, Pat, Steve,
I am devastated to read this so I can only imagine your pain.
I was so thrilled that Pat and Steve were opting to do a family trip to Fl..not that we would not miss them at OLFF..but was so happy that Steve was doing so well that this was an option..I’m heartbroken..
Please give my love, my prayers, my good energy..and anything else they may need that I have to them.
Sending my love and prayers in your direction..
Dianne
Dianne I will put him on the prayer list here and have Jay put him and his family on the prayer list at his church. My heart goes out the the whole family. Keep in mind we are doing relay for life and I will ask our team to keep them in prayer.
Thank you.
Thank you guys!
So sorry to hear this news. Blessings on you all!
Thanks, Leslie.
I’m so sorry to hear this. All my thoughts and prayers are with you and Pat & Steve. May you all find strength to get through. xx
Thanks, Carol.
Sending my best thoughts to Pat and Steve and to you too. xox
Thanks Michelle. Right back at ya, too.
Oh….how horrible, Mindy,
Are Pat & Steve accepting phone calls? (I do have theirs), Otto & Joanne
Thank you, Mindy for the update. Otto & I are very saddened to hear this news. Steve has always had a smile and hug for us, no matter how hectic things were at the shows. Please tell him we are thinking and praying for him. He has been on our prayer list since the beginning. Please also let Pat know we are with both of them in spirit and love in this time of change.
I always thought he would beat this.
Love, Joanne & Otto
Mindy, Steve and Pat,
All my thoughts and energy are flowing your way. Steve, I remember those years I served with you at VAGMA. We had lots of fun and laughs. You are a great leader and thanks to you VAGMA is what it is today.
I also remember the wonderful hugs and smiling face.
I love you both and will keep you in my thoughts.
Nancy
Nancy- thank you. I will pass everything on. I haven’t been down there, yet, but from all the details I’m getting, he is at peace, unafraid, and doing a wonderful job of spreading that peace to his family. He’s amazing.
(((hugs)))
thanks marri- i’ll take all i can get.
Pat and Steve- many hearts and prayers are with you
Thanks Karen, will pass it on.
Sending thoughts, prayers, and hugs to Steve and Pat and the whole family.
Thank you- I’ll be passing it on.